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contrary types



I've been reflecting recently on how Jocelyn (f) and Perry (m) are confounding the stereotypes! Jocelyn is "the physical one" (although we try not to label!). Perry is "the verbal one".

What that means is that Jocelyn tries to stand up on the back of the couch, walk down the stairs not holding on, jump off a chair onto pillow, climb a rope grid with one-foot squares up to five feet in the air at the playground . . . etc. She occasionally says a two-word phrase.

While Perry is much happier at the playground in the swings or the sandbox. And if he is awake he is talking. He keeps up a running commentary on what is going on around him. "I want put food on plate." "I don't know where poetry book is." "One baby going up [the staircase], one baby going down." When told not to eat his cottage cheese with his fingers, to use his spoon, "No eat cah chee poo--ha" (Not eat cottage cheese spoon--hand!". He has memorized almost every book in the house (and we have dozens--scores even). He invents new verses to "old macdonald" (has a clock--tick tock here, tick tock there) and "wheels on the bus" (cow on the bus goes moo moo moo).

Of course if it were the other way around people would say, oh, well of course girls are more verbal and boys more physical.

It shows to go ya.

Valerie